Like Mother Like Daughter.

It is amazing how much we are like our parents. Some signs are obvious, like our appearance. But take a closer look at things. We act a lot like our parents, sometimes even more than we'd like to. 

No, we don't stress over paying the taxes or get angry over gas prices. But we do handle our stress and anger the same way. We do the same things, but at different levels. The popular moms and dads have kids that fill their old shoes. So what about those kids who like to party? Chances are that their parents that like to party, too.

Looking for a great guy? If you get the chance, look at how his father treats his mom. Or you could even ask him how he thinks his father treats his mom. 

Are parents are who we really are. We can't really escape that, either. 

About the Author

I just noticed that I haven't really posted anything about me. Although you've probably made your judgement and think that I am really depressed and have some major mental issues. Well, I guess we'll never know for sure. (Kidding. I'm really not so depressed. We all have our days. This is just how I express my feelings.)

Eight Things You Should If-You-Don't-Already Know About Me:

#1. I enjoy being by myself. I'm not anti-social, I just like my 'me time.' Like reading, listening to music, blogging, and just plain old thinking in general.

#2. I love the simple things: nature and peace. I know what you're thinking, just another fad. Not really. Let's call it a lifestyle, instead.

#3. I have my own style. I like it that way. I don't get easily persuaded into other styles. I like what I like so I wear what I want to.

#4. I would do anything to make the ones I love happy, yet I sometimes have a difficult time being happy with myself. 

#5. I don't cry. I just don't. I don't choose to, I just physically can't.

#6. I'm not dumb (or conceited). I get straight A's, have common sense, and try to apply logic as much as I can. 

#7. I want to become a doctor. Hopefully in the ER and trauma. (crosses fingers!)

#8. I like a variety of things. Reading. Shopping. Running. Playing soccer. Science. Guitar. Photography. I'm willing to give everything thing a try.

Movie Review: Twilight

Although it wasn't exactly like the book, it was pretty good. The mood in the beginning was awkward, but I think that was just how it was meant to be. The acting was okay, but the plot, as many of you know, was extremely well executed. I think maybe that I am just bias though, since I couldn't put the books down. I would give it a three out of five stars.

5 Questions

Instead of having history, our counselor came in and game us a speech based of the book "7 Habits of Highly Successful Teens." Boring? A little bit. Except the paper he handed out to us which had questions that 'made us think.' There were a few questions that were better than expected. So here they are:

1. If you could spend one day in a great library studying anything you wanted, what would you study?
2. List five things you love to do. It could be singing, dancing, looking at magazines, drawing, reading, daydreaming-anything you absolutely love to do.
3. Describe a time when you were deeply inspired.
4. If you could spend an hour with any person who ever lived, who would it be? Why that person? What would you ask?
5. Think of something that represents you-a rose, a song, an animal. Why does it represent you?

My answers? Here they are:

1. I have been really interested in the medical field lately, so I would probably look up some interesting terminology on a variety of things of diseases and other things of that nature. 
2. I absolutely love reading. On summer vacation,  I read an uncounted number of books. They really take me away from reality and just let me into an unexplored world. When I am reading a book outside I am absolutely in heaven! I love the sunlight, the trees, the fresh scent, the calm breeze, everything! Nature is the most beautiful thing on this entire planet. It's a shame that some people don't appreciate it as much as before. Not to sound lazy, but I love sleeping. And when I say love, I mean love. It relaxes me and gives me an extra energy boost. And just as an added hint, it burns more calories than watching television. On the total opposite side of the scale, I love running and playing soccer. Running is an excellent stress buster and, as you probably already know, if the best kind of cardio exercise. What better way to enjoy your run than with a little music? The great thing about music is that there is such an extensive variety that it will fit any mood that is on this planet. It can also be motivational and inspiring in countless ways.
3. A time that I was deeply inspired was whenever my grandmother died. My entire family came together from all of the country to honor her. Everything just seemed to fit. All of the hole in my heart were filled, time stood still, and I felt whole as a person. Everything just felt complete. It really proved to me that family is the most important thing in my life. It was really moving and helped me take a step forward in my life.
4. I would definitely want to have dinner with my grandfather who served in WWII and died a few years later from a blood clot in his brain. Why him? I never got to talk to him, and I would love to know about the time period in which he lived and how his life compares to ours. 
5. A nut would probably be my symbol. Not because I am crazy, or 'nutty.' I am hard on the outside but soft on the inside. I also have this protective shell on the outside, which makes it difficult for me to trust other people.

Shocked

Last night was one that I wish I could erase from my memory. I was pumped, as usual to play my indoor game, it was only our second game of the season. We were tied, 0-0 and there were about 10 minutes in the second half. I was on the sidelines taking our turn of sitting 3 minutes out and letting other players get a chance on the field. The ball was down near our goal and our goalie, one of my close friends, just caught the ball. The instant she had the ball, one of our opponent's teammate took her feet out  from under her, and she literally fell 3 feet in the air onto the ground. She automatically jumped back on her feet, gave two ear-piercing screams of pain and screamed "My arm is broken!". That image have been playing in my mind since last night. It was one of the most horrifying things that I have ever seen. She broke her arm in three places and went into surgery this morning. I really hope she is alright.

Mmm. Candy.

Everyone needs a little man candy. Thank you Google!

Oh, the Irony!

At lunch, I sit with one of my friends and a couple. If you could see how he treats her you would be jealous (I know I am). He is really a great boyfriend. Well, his girlfriend, who is also one of my friends, got mad at him because he couldn't talk a lot with her this weekend. However, he did have time to leave her a voicemail just before she goes to bed (like he always does. It is one of those cutesy things that he does for her). How did she resolve this problem? She didn't talk to him at lunch and got mad at him. Don't you think that it is a tad bit ironic that she solved the issue of him not being able to talk to her by not talking to him?

That got me wondering what other stupid things us girls do.

Inspiration

Props to www.marieclaire.com for the great photos. I honestly wish I was this girl in the shoot.

Random, Unconditional Acts of Kindness

There was a man who was going in for an interview for an office job. He was very well-kept and had long hair, which was neatly kept in a braid. He recognized that this might be a discrepancy; however, he was growing it for his niece, who has been diagnosed with cancer.

That happened at my mom's work, and I still can't get over it. That man would go through all that trouble with finding a job just so he can give his daughter his hair. It honestly brings tears to my eyes.

Wouldn't it be nice if more people were like this, Just did random, unconditional acts of kindness? The world would be a much better place.

I'll leave you with one of my personal favorite quotes from Gandhi that I try and live by:

"We must become the change we want to see in the world."